College is a period of your life when you have fun and meet an incredible amount of new people. Some people become your true friends while others leave your life after graduation. However, there might be one person that will be with you all your life. So, can college relationship be long-termed and exist beyond college?
Be assured, a person you meet during your freshman year will be completely different by the graduation day. Thus, there is no point in making lifelong commitments at a young age despite the public opinion. Even if you happen to be not married when you are 30, it is worth enjoying your college years and not committing to anyone.
At the same time, it doesn’t mean you have to refuse to have relationships at all. No one knows where you will meet your spouse. Whenever you fall for someone and feel there is no good reason to break up, do not hesitate to marry young.
If you are not looking for a spouse in college, it doesn’t mean that everyone doesn’t. Thus, do not ignore your “bad dates” just because they expected something more serious than you did. Better tell the truth that you don’t see eye to eye with how you view your future with each other but do not hurt other people’s feelings. Besides, keep in mind that by the time you graduate dating becomes less casual. Sometimes it resembles interviews for the ‘position’ of the future spouse.
In college relationships, the question of moving is an inevitable step to take. It is vital to consider how your career might be affected by a potential relocation. The question of marriage will be the following. Thus, it is recommended to take into account all the pros and cons before making a final decision. Anyway, moving to another city is an exciting perspective even if there is no marriage afterwards.
No one says you have to go to the most expensive restaurant for dinner. We are all aware of the fact that students can’t boast having plenty of money to spend on things they want. However, there are so many other things to do instead of simply going for coffee. Why don’t you go ice-skating or have a small picnic in the nearby park? Moreover, it is a good way to foster your creativity. Believe it or not, it will do you much good in your adult life.
Mistakes are inevitable in any relationship. Don’t be afraid to make yours otherwise how can you be sure what and who suits you best.